By Tom Graves
In this collection of columns and prayers gleaned from 47
years as a pastor, Graves gently but decisively nudges us toward a life of faith
and devotion to God. Affectionate and wise, his vignettes show us a big-hearted,
generous faith – big enough to include all of us and generous enough to never
give up on any of us.

Graves writes about his faith journey with wonder,
gratitude, and an irrepressible love of God’s creation. Clearly, this is a man
of faith who relishes life, which makes his faith all the more appealing and
accessible to the reader.
From his first meditation – entitled “Alive?” – Graves
entreats us to focus on what we “long to attain” to measure how we are using
God’s gift of life. He ends this first entry with, “We are all dying? Are we
really living?” With insight and tenderness, he proceeds to show us how God’s
love – made real and specific through Christ – can lead us to a more authentic
and richly satisfying life.
Graves keeps his spirituality firmly planted in solid
scenes and believable metaphors as he chronicles how faith translates into
everyday life. Inspiring but not dogmatic, he communicates the gospel with
compassion and concreteness. Learning to float teaches us about trust, a flower
garden is a metaphor for spiritual discipline, an accident becomes a lesson on
grace.
Whether describing snorkeling, driving during a fog, his
son’s room after leaving for college, sailing, or a willow tree, Graves shows us
how faith can affirm, heal, challenge, and, if we remain open to it, make us
better persons. A willingness to take risks, just as God took a risk with us, is
a recurring theme in the book, as are renewal, acceptance, and community.
Though always warm and life-affirming, Graves does not shy
away from serious subjects like suffering and sorrow. Rather, he convincingly
conveys how a deep personal faith can help one endure the tough times, make
sense of the world, and make a difference in the lives of others.
Reviewed by Patti Simmons, Director of Foundation Relations for the Texas Methodist Foundation.
Dr. Tom Graves is a retired member of the North Texas Annual Conference and
former Texas Methodist Foundation board member.
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